listen, I know you have questionsAll of a sudden, a lot of people coming to me saying they either need someone to talk to or they're really going through a tough time. Of course, even with my advice in my head, there's actually a limit.
the same ones as me
how long has it been?
how long will it be?
when will come the morning, we'll drive the night away
tell me when will come the morning of a brighter day
A friend told me once. "God is only (more or less) testing us one thing - Patience". When you are bombarded with a lot and one homework, what do you do? Do one by one and try to finish all. It might take some time, (a lot of time, maybe) but we got to hold on and do the best. Even if it's hard.
Similar with our lives. I always told my friends this, "Don't try. Just do." Stop saying things like, "I can't do it" or "I'll try..." because these just equals to 1) I have no hope 2) I don't want to do it. Whereas having the certainty to do it, that makes a whole lot of difference. If we had to run five rounds and by the fourth round, we'd be all tired, tell yourself, "I can do it! I'm not tired!" You'll find yourself winning the race.
What I'm saying is, you gotta have patience and the certainty of what you are doing is right. Have a lot (not a little) of faith in yourself. No matter what others say, work towards a goal, especially if it's a problem you wish to fully eradicate, like money matters. Work hard, and even if they pay isn't much, you're still doing everything in your power to eradicate your problems. That's not trying. That's doing the whole package already. Trying would be you working, but quit halfway because you 'think' there's a better alternative. Sure, there is, but you'll find yourself back to square one in desperation.
When should you really stop 'doing' and realise that it isn't right for you? When it is not paying off. Not even a bit. When you realise that nothing is there for you, let's say you work at this company and even after a month or so of working, they still haven't pay you - then obviously you should get yourself out of that mess.
Regardless, have all the patience in the world, especially life. Running away from problems is fine, but they'll come chasing from you. Do everything in your power to remove these problems - one at a time as it's the best for you. Hold on because to whatever hardship you go through, God has a whole plan behind that hardship.
Financial problems give you the lesson of appreciating hardwork and the value of money. Love problems shows you what it takes to have a stable relationship. With that said, any problems you face, the silver lining is the lesson you get out of it. That's important. With all these lessons, you will be a better person. Hold on and be the best you can be. I'm sure you'll do great in life.
Next topic, I'll talk about Mistakes. See y'all soon!
Any questions or if you feel I should make this article clearer, feel free to ask me. If you guys have any problems, email me ANONYMOUSLY at my email which is available at the sideboard. I'd love to help you out.